In response to Mother’s Day Everyday

The ideal man...this seems the talk of childhood fairytales, but in reality it is easily achieved. I am in no way trying to suggest that there exists an ideal man, but rather that men can work toward being the best husbands for their wives. And this in no way implies that wives do not have an equal responsibility to their husbands. Each person has specific, individual ways in which they feel loved by their spouse. If you knew the ways that made your spouse feel loved by you, then why wouldn’t you go out of your way to do those things? In doing so, you would become the ideal spouse.
The key to this is you don’t have to be the ideal man for all women; you just need to be your woman’s ideal man.
Although the definition of ideal is “existing only in the imagination; not real or actual” so maybe I am just crazy for thinking that someone would ever want to make another person happy out of nothing more then mutual love.